One of the biggest concerns that domestic violence victims face is how to make sure their children are going to be OK. There’s nothing a parent wants more than a safe, loving environment for their child. This summer, several domestic violence centers around the Tampa and central Florida area are collaborating to help children who are victims of domestic violence have the summer camp experience that they deserve with Camp HOPE.

Giving Children HOPE 

Camp HOPE America is a trauma-informed sleepaway camp program for kids who have witnessed or experienced domestic violence. The organization began in California and now takes place across the states nationwide. The week-long camp is provided free of charge to kids between the ages of 7 and 11. “Kids are able to start a healing process from what they’ve experienced,” said Amanda Markiewicz, Chief Programs Officer for Sunrise Domestic and Sexual Violence Center in Pasco County. “It’s a great opportunity for the centers to work together to be able to bring children together and support youth who have experienced or witnessed domestic violence and just engage them through the camp itself.”

For safety reasons, the camp takes place at an undisclosed location. Staff members are trained in trauma-informed advocacy skills to help support the kids while they’re there. The structure of the camp is a values-based program called “Challenge by Choice.” Children are praised for developing character traits during their time at camp. “Challenge by Choice” refers to challenging children to try new activities, some with perceived danger or risk while allowing them to opt out of those activities if it creates unmanageable stress or fear.

Campers build self-awareness by acknowledging whether they are in their comfort, challenge, or panic zone during an activity. This allows them to build confidence in being able to overcome challenges. They’re also able to set boundaries when they choose to step outside their comfort zone and step beyond their challenge zone and into their panic zone.

Each year, the camp boasts a new theme and features stories of four Hope Heroes and coinciding Truth Statements which are discussed throughout the week. Hope, at all campsites and in all program activities, is defined as three things: believing in yourself, believing in others, and believing in your dreams. “After camp, there are a lot of activities throughout the year in the hopes of re-engaging them in camp again,” said Markiewicz.

The Reason Behind the Camp

Getting out of an abusive situation is a scary situation, especially if there are children involved. Unfortunately, domestic violence is much more common than you think. The need for a safe haven for victims is imperative, which is why places like Sunrise Domestic and Sexual Violence Center exists. “We’re the only certified center for both domestic and sexual violence within Pasco County,” said Markiewicz. They are a 40-bed shelter for women and children who are coming out of situations of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking.

The shelter provides clothing, food, hygiene products, and helps with documentation that they may not have access to after leaving home. “We can help access driver’s licenses, social security cards, birth certificates, and things like that.” Services are provided to the victims, such as case management, advocacy, and counseling. There are also programs such as economic empowerment to help adults build resumes, find jobs, and help with taxes. For those afraid to leave their pets behind, Sunrise partners with Pasco County Animal Services to ensure that their pets have a safe place to go if they choose to bring them along.

How You Can Help

With the camp being free of charge, the centers depend on the community to help. “Camps are expensive so this is something that’s free to attend,” said Markiewicz, “For a lot of our parents, sending a child to a week-long camp is just something that they can’t do so this is a great opportunity to be able to do this for them.” The centers fundraise to help with the costs, but donations are greatly needed by the community. Camp HOPE is set to take place the first week of August, and donations are still needed for this year. Currently, the camp needs sleeping bags, towels, snacks (peanut-free), bug spray, and sunscreen. They also need Walmart and Target gift cards to purchase water shoes for the campers. Financial and physical donations can be made directly to one of the five participating centers:

Help Now
407-847-8562

The Spring
813-247-SAFE

CASA
727-895-4912

Sunrise of Pasco
352-521-3120

Harbor House
407-886-2856

What to Do When Help is Needed

If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence, you can contact one of the shelters for immediate assistance. All sites have a “quick escape” button to immediately exit the site without it showing up on your browser history. The shelters work with local law enforcement to ensure a safe transition and shelter locations are undisclosed for security reasons. All shelters have a 24-hour hotline for anyone seeking services or who need to speak to an advocate.

Source credit: Brie Gorecki, Tampa Bay Parenting. Link to original article.

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SAN DIEGO (KGTV) — A three day conference in San Diego aims to prevent violence.

The goal of the 22nd Annual International Family Justice Center Conference is to bring professionals from across the nation together, to discuss how to help victims, minimize trauma and understand it to prevent shootings like the one that happened on Tuesday in Texas.

The sold-out event will host more than 600 professionals from across the US as they try to make real change.

“We can intervene early to stop these kind of shootings,” said Casey Gwinn. “We are just not doing it in most of America.”

Gwinn, the President of the Alliance for HOPE International, and named one of the top public lawyers in the US, says at the root of every crime, abuse, and mass shooting, like the one in Uldave, Texas is trauma.

“We are not identifying kids that have been exposed to trauma and abuse and adversity,” said Gwinn. “And I guarantee you that when Ramos story comes out there’s going to be childhood trauma and probably a level of rage in his life that never got addressed.”

It’s a reality Mildred Muhammad can attest too.

Her ex-husband was John Allen Muhammad, also known as the DC Sniper. Muhammad worked with a teenage accomplice to kill dozens of people, while Mildred was at home suffering domestic abuse.

“There are studies that prove that the shooter starts at home first, as in this incident, the young man shot his grandmother and then he went out to kill children. Most abuses of domestic start at home as in my case, and then spread into the community,” said Midlred. “And it’s important to understand what the dynamics of having a gun is and why it’s the first tool that’s used in order to destroy other families.”

This conference will focus on strategic solutions to early interventions with kids who have underwent trauma, how to go after those who commit the violence, and develop hope-centered practices to help all involved.

“People’s ability after they grieved, after they have gone through unimaginable loss, there has to come a point where they are ready to say, ‘Okay. This is going to matter for some reason in my life, or this is going to allow me to do this, make a difference here’.”

Professionals in therapy, classroom settings, law enforcement, and prisons will spend three days in seminars and workshops discussing how they can re-assess old ideas and techniques.

“Some of the things that used to work, don’t work anymore,” said Mildred.

Gwinn says they will also work together to prevent more violence from taking place, “Pain turns into power. And there will come a day, I hope and pray where this kind of a shooting finally mobilizes people to say we gotta deal with guns and get them away from traumatized mentally-ill dangerous people.”

He furthers, “we have to deal with trauma of children impacted by all kinds of adversity. Because if we don’t we are just going to see the next shooting and the next shooting and the next shooting.”

Gwinn shares that another focus area is on strangulation techniques. He says the majority of mass shooters in the US have a history of strangulation. Attendees at the conference will be learning best practices in identifying behaviors and patterns.

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